DEVORCE...AN ALTERNATIVE TO HAVING PEACE OF MIND?

Many and many more couples are thinking of devorce day and night as many and many more mariages are ending up abysmally these days than before. If the union isn't working, is break up a choice to consider?

 

Marriage is one of the most beautiful concepts humanity has ever embraced. It is a union of two souls who are committed to sharing their lives, love, and happiness together. However, when this beautiful union becomes shaky and is no longer fulfilling, divorce may become inevitable, and this is what a lot of couples do not envisage before saying, "I do."

 

As much as this may sound like a horror to many married couples or some that are planning to take the bold step, marital divorce is not always a result of bad behaviour, infidelity, or abuse; sometimes, it's merely due to irreconcilable differences.

 

For a fact, divorce is a painful process, fraught with uncertainties and intricacies, as it represents the demise of a long-term commitment and the beginning of a new and unknown journey. It is not just the end of a relationship but often leads to significant changes in the family structure: custody battles, child support, and visitation arrangements.

 

There are various reasons why couples split. Some of the most common reasons include poor communication, financial troubles, lack of affection, different interests and goals, and growing apart. Some couples do not realize that the spark that once existed between them has fizzled out, leaving nothing but empty promises and unfulfilled dreams.

 

Divorce can be a traumatic experience for both partners, even more so for their children, relatives and friends, especially when the couple involved can't reconcile their differences amicably. The after-effects of a divorce on children can last for years, with some still feeling the impact well into their adult lives.

 

We can finally say, the decision to divorce should not be taken lightly, and it requires careful consideration, genuine effort and commitment to make the marriage work. The emotional, psychological, and financial implications of divorce could have lasting effects on the entire family, let alone the couple involved. Couples experiencing marital issues should consider seeking professional counselling from therapists or marriage counsellors before considering divorce. With dedication and hard work, even the most complicated marital problems can be solved.


Lord Whimpora

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