Forgiveness is one of the most difficult things to do sometimes even as a child of God.oooh and how awesome it is when you have been able to forgive and the healing it brings to ones spirit, soul and even the body.
Yet in forgiveness comes sometimes with a lot of pains.No wonder they say "no pain, no gain".The pain it comes with sometimes makes us assume the judgment seat and become judges passing judgment on those who hurt us or predict what should befall on them, the kind of punishment we think they deserve and even wishing death for them sometimes.
Sometimes we even try to involve God by asking Him to carry out the sentence or punishment we have passed or given.Forgetting that they are also God's children who may be lost sheep waiting to be redeemed or found.
So instead of being Soo angry that your judgment is even crowded, just take a moment, be reflective and forgive cos sometimes,what they did to you matters not, but what you did in response to what they did to you matters most.
So Yes, you might not be able or even want to redeem them if you are even given the power to do so, You may probably not pray for them even to change, But the best we can do is to atleast forgive and let God do the rest... Shalom.